This is a guest post written by Ryan Biddulph, author, blogger, and creator of Blogging From Paradise.
Blogging Energy 101: You See It By BEing It
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I know you likely heard every practical blogging tip under the sun. We all have.
Why do so many bloggers struggle, fail and quit when most know all the practical tips to put into action, to become successful?
Most bloggers never see success because they never BE the blogger who becomes successful. Either they ignore successful tips, stop using them from an abundant vibe, or flat out follow practical tips from a scarcity, poverty conscious vibe for months or years, resulting in scarcity and poverty, in their experiences.
Take a deep breath guys. This bends your mind at first. Total mind melter, for the uninitiated, but you see it to be true among all highly successful bloggers.
You see blogging success in the physical world (big money and traffic) by being a successful blogger well before you see the big money and traffic. This is NOT working hard to get something. Poor people think like that. This is working from an abundant conscious, chill, relaxed, generous, patient and persistent, detached vibe, trusting in your budding success, for a while.
Gary Vee said he did 2000 YouTube interviews – some with unknown entrepreneurs, said videos registering zero views – before he landed interviews on world famous television shows. He BEed the world famous, successful blogger while doing thousands of interviews, for many off the radar folks. He BEed it for a while, energetically, being the success, so he eventually saw success in the physical world.
I have written and published 806 guest posts on Blogging Tips alone. I have not made $800,000,000 but of course, I would not be surprised if I became a billionaire. I have been BEing that person energetically for quite a while. You BE it, then, you see it in your physical experience, a manifestation of the energy you have been BEing for a sustained period.
What Does BEing a Successful Blogger Mean?
If you BE a successful blogger, you blog from abundance despite the illusion of scarcity. Per example, some top bloggers appear to lose all their money. Emphasis on “appear”, as all fears, lack, limitation and scarcity are illusions. Love and abundance are true, real. Successful bloggers keep generously BEing successful, helping people from an abundant vibe even though they may appear to have no money, when they do not appear to be successful, and, this crowd becomes incredibly successful. BE. Become. BE. See.
Unfortunately, most bloggers BE a successful blogger, generously helping people, but the split second they appear to lose all their money, or a family member rejects them for some reason related to their blog, or a dear friend mocks them for blogging, these bloggers panic, and immediately begin BEing a broke, struggling, failing blogger. Said bloggers stop blogging, or play it small. Failure follows, because you get what you are BEing.
The select few who vibe like, think like, act like and BE a successful blogger despite all appearances to the contrary become the Gary Vees of the world. He has been so abundant-minded, prosperity conscious, generous and detached that even when he had a decently well known name, he did interviews with folks that got zero views on their videos. Talk about being prosperity conscious. Of course the dude was gonna be worth millions. He was BEing that person for quite a while.
He sees stunning success in the physical world because he has been BEing the person who thinks, feels and acts like a stunningly successful person, well before he saw stunning success in the physical world.
Tips for BEing a Successful Blogger
Surround yourself with happy, heart-centered, successful bloggers. Follow their abundant, prosperity conscious advice.
Develop a vision for your dream life.
Count 5 to 10 blogging wins daily.
Be generous. Help people for free. Detach from outcomes.
Know only love and abundance are real.
Know fear, lack, scarcity and poverty are illusions, or appearances, totally not real, and will definitely pass.
Trust in yourself. Trust in something bigger than yourself. Trust in your blog. #bloggingClick To TweetIf you appear to lose your money, do not panic. Feel fears or terrors but do not act on fears, or you begin BEing a poor person, which is never a good idea because you see it, by being it. Most humans are broke their entire lives because they are vibing at a poverty level, see poverty, and the cycle continues forever. They never choose to change their being because they believe not they have that power.
Help people generously. Write guest posts. Promote other bloggers. @RyanBiddulphClick To TweetTrust you are being cared for. Know success is yours. Know you are fully deserving of everything in the Universe. BE that successful person, acting like a rocking blogger, and give no attention to the appearances of anything to the contrary.
The floodgates of success slowly and steadily open up for you.
All because you BEed it, then, you see it.
Amar Kumar says
Hello Ryan & Dana,
Problem solving blogs and websites get success in very less time and become popular.
People on the internet will not visit your blog just to read what you are bragging. They want something useful and valuable for them – And this strategy help you to become famous and hence you become successful.
In my opinion too, by helping your readers to get success, will become the cause of your success.
Creating relationship with other people in your field is very useful and it is a source of great knowledge.
Talking with experience people and learn from their failures and mistakes, can make you even better than them.
The only way to get repeated visitors to your blog site is to be consistent in the frequency and quality of your posts. Eventually, thanks for your sweet thoughts.
With best wishes,
Amar Kumar
Dana says
Hey Amar,
Yep, people want content that’ll help them. Info that helps make their lives easier and teaches them something valuable. Ryan’s great at that. He shares content genuinely designed to help people become not only better at what they do, but to feel good about it in the process.
I’m glad you enjoyed reading this. It was a pleasure to share this content here 🙂
D –
Corina Ramos says
Hey Ryan,
So good to see you hear on Dana’s blog!
I love the tips you shared – especially the one about visualizing our dream life. Sometimes that’s hard to do when you have to deal with rejection, goals and other triggers that can alter one’s positive mindset.
It’s happened to me…and the way I put it out of my mind is to meditate on the dream life visual.
I love helping people, that’s like a high for me! 🙂
As always great advice you’ve shared here!
Have a great day and weekend Dana and Ryan!
Cori
Dana says
Hey Cori,
Glad you enjoyed this. I know I did. 🙂
Ryan always shares uplifting and helpful insights. It’s a pleasure to feature his work here.
I know too well how much you enjoy helping people. It’s one of the things I adore about you most!
Lisa Sicard says
Hi Ryan, it really is about being fearless too. If you have no fears you carry on until you reach your goals. If you are afraid you will always stop short. Of course, helping others along the way is just as important. Excellent points here Ryan!
Dana says
Hi Lisa,
Yes, helping others is so important. I think Ryan truly gets that. It’s definitely obvious to me 🙂